SOCIETY
Willy. A Hope
for the People
NIGERIA “Everyone has to look out for himself.” This was his
philosophy
of life. Then the encounter with a group of friends occurred
by John Williams
I am John Williams, a Nigerian living in Lagos. I am 33 years old and working
in the Seed Education Center in various capacities, including as a teacher. The
Seed Education Center comprises a nursery and primary school with 600 pupils,
a remedial school with no less than 100 students, a youth curricular and extra-curricular
center, a training center for teachers of different levels of education, and
also a center for parent and adult education and relationships. Growing up in
a society where we are raised to work, and for a good number with the target
of making money even at early ages, life is supposedly enjoyed by those who have
more of the money. Like a race, each one from elementary school, consciously
or not, begins to run this race. At the end of my tertiary education, the only
idea in my mind was to get a job, make money, and earn a living; just work for
me and my “interests.” Life’s philosophy was “every man for his own head.” It
was meeting with this group of friends in my final year of polytechnic education
that the school education I received and life and its many tentacles began to
make sense in their totality.
Life with enthusiasm
The relationship with these
friends has blossomed and, with my working with the Seed Education Center, I
have been given more opportunities to verify the content of the message they
carry. I come to the office with well laid out plan of how the day should go
but, alas, reality always re-orders this. Normally, my day begins with supporting
Jovita, the head teacher of the nursery and primary school, in making sure that
everything is in order with the nursery and primary school, which commences at
7:45 a.m. answering to particular needs and emergencies, that are never short
of occurringfor example, children coming to school sick, others without eating
from home, some others not having writing materials because of their parents’ inability
to afford such simple items, and so on. The next activities are organizing my
desk and also the work of Distance Support (SAD) that I am mainly responsible
for.
For and with the students
In the afternoons, from 3 p.m., the students of
the remedial school begin to come in for their classes that commence at 4:30
p.m., lasting till 7:30 p.m. The remedial school is an afternoon school that
has the aim of supporting students in their academic work. This need is urgent
because of reasons that include: the teachers going on industrial strikes, non-interest
in the profession and job by some teachers, employing of unqualified persons,
lack of facilities, etc. The majority of the students attend regular morning
schools while others worksome are apprentices and others are parents. I teach
Integrated Sciencenatural, chemical, and physical sciences combinedin the junior
secondary, which is interesting and challenging. With the students, I work with
Pascal, another colleague, and together we prepare the extra-curricular activities
like sports, club meetings, and, most importantly, the School of Communities
for those who are interested. These are ways in which we stay with the students,
sharing our lives and awareness with them and helping them to verify the meaning
and the richness of what they learn in class and around them, shifting what is
good to the fore. With the remedial teachers who do part-time work with us and
are regular teachers with public and private schools, Francis, Michela and I
meet monthly with them to compare and judge the reality of the school, the students,
and the work that they are engaged in. It is thought-provoking to note the gap
that exists between the teacher who sees himself as the all-in-all of his subject
and the one who considers himself a sign, leading the students to something greater.
Our teachers are learning and understanding that which is more true and correspondent.
This work of comparison is not restricted to the staff; we meet with the student
responsibles each week to review the work.
Shameful poverty
On paper, Nigeria
is supposed to be a rich country, based on the fact that we are an oil-exporting
nation with many natural and human resources. In reality, it is what it is not
supposed to be, with abject poverty striking the majority of the people. Speaking
specifically, families are finding the socio-economic situation too hard to live
with. For example, how can a family of three live and survive with 4,500 Naira
(less than $40) a month? It’s a mystery. With the non-availability of jobs, also
for university graduates, most families have resorted to tradingthat is, the
buying and selling of small goods like sweets, biscuits, fruit, vegetable, fish,
etc. In the poor communities near our office, the total value of goods sold by
some families is less than 2,000 Naira ($17). With this, they have to pray for
business to be good so as to sustain their families. Days with bad sales mean
both the parents and children have to do the sacrifice of eating scrappy meals.
Sacks, bamboo and wood
Accommodation is no better; this is expensive and there
is not enough to go around for the population of Lagos, which is increasing by
the second. To help themselves, some families who are finding things really difficult
have taken the initiative of making houses from sacks, bamboo, wood, etc., on
lands that sooner or later they will be sent packing from. Others have taken
to living under and around bridges. The consequence of these hardships include
the increase in the number of school drop-outs also from elementary school, increase
in crime rate, increase and indiscriminate use of hard drugs, especially marijuana
(which is becoming as popular and openly used as cigarettes). The issue of teenage
pregnancy is not left out; this is on the increase and is now becoming something
that is not unusual. In front of these situations, the option left before all
is to condemn the government, cast blame on the society, on parents, on everyone
except oneself. I was strongly into this position until I met these friends.
For me, I have come to learn to tackle these situations, not with pity but rather
with a hope, with a belief and a gratitude that I can contribute a little to
the development of the human dignity of Nigerians. I am also happy that the Seed
Center, through its activities and encounter with the people, is contributing
to the national stakea contribution that is not just monetary or for the future
but one that is for now. It fills me with joy that my intention to stay in the
education sector is useful and meaningful, although initially I preferred the
chemical industry.
The daily compass
I am grateful for meeting the friends of
CL who proposed a way of life that has become my way of life, the way that is
the “compass” for all I do and live. I have also discovered that one thing is
to give money as a form of assistance; another is to build the person, the people.
Through working with these friends and in collaboration with AVSI, I love this
approach of building the man, of which I am a beneficiary. So I can say with
conviction that I am a man, though full of limitations; I can raise my head high
up to say, “I am a man!” Sharing my life and the education I have received and
sharing the people I meet, most closely with the students of the remedial school
GS [CL youth group], I feel more grateful to the Mystery that these young ones
are learning and verifying what they live. It is interesting to note how seriously
they are taking their lives. With thanks to the Mystery do we watch the kindling
of the fire that has begun its journey of becoming a flame. With this group,
I am confident in saying that our society, that Nigeria, will definitely be better.