School of Community with NATO
Six years living far away from home. In 2001,
transferred to a small town near Salonicco. The meeting at Mass with other
immigrants and officers of the NATO contingent. The common desire to meet
and the birth of the Christian community. To tackle the problems of life.
by Rosaria and Nico Gutzamanis
Two years
ago, we were transferred from Katerini to Larissa, Greece, a small town about
two hours’ drive from Salonicco.
The thought of this change cheered me up at once; I had heard that there
was a small Catholic Church in that town, and an Italian priest. I imagined
that church and that priest to be the possibility of a Christian
companionship and therefore the way out of the loneliness that weighed on
my family’s life in the years we spent in Katerini.
Spurred on by that new and cheerful image, the first
time I went to Mass with my husband and two children I asked to be
introduced to some members of the parish community. The reply was sadly
brusque and disappointing. I was told that the priest came only once a week
to say Mass in that predominantly Orthodox town, that there was no Catholic
community there, and, even worse, that there would never be one.
Dinner with the officers and new friends
This cynical
and disillusioned statement had a terrible effect on me: was there really
no chance of finding friends here in Greece?
Was it really true? Couldn’t I even hope? I didn’t want to
resign myself to this prospect; I was convinced there must be a way out.
Spurred on by this hope of positivity and by my need for company, I prayed
to the Lord until one day something changed. One Saturday, I had dinner
with some people who went to weekly Mass. The group was made up of foreign
immigrants and Italian officers serving in the NATO contingent based at
Larissa. They were people like me, feeling very lonely and homesick. It
was
this separation from the affection of loved ones that gave form and content
to our discussion that evening.
During dinner,
I was surprised that although we didn’t know each other, every one of us felt the need to speak
frankly and straightforwardly about himself and his need for company. They
all wanted to share their lives with someone, and they wanted something
that would help them to face up to the present moment and its difficulties.
It was right in that moment that I first felt the need to tell them briefly
about my encounter with the Movement and then to suggest that we meet once
a week to read The Religious Sense together, the text that has helped
me to live and face up to the stress of these years in Greece.
Feeling at home everywhere
So it was that,
week by week, a year went by. After that first evening, we never stopped
meeting at least once a week, and the
faithfulness to this appointment has produced its fruits in each one of
us.
Claudio, a lieutenant-colonel in NATO, told us, “In my former,
private life of social intercourse, I had never had such an intimate
relationship of reflection by myself or with others on the true existential
values, a moment of sharing with people that I discovered have the same
interior needs as I do…” And Fausto, a colonel in NATO, said,
“In the organic, consequential and logical development of reasoning,
led by a kind of open debate in the group, and always following the way
marked out by Fr Giussani, I found a window opened up on the subjects and
on the panorama of life that have always provoked my mind: is there a
reasonable answer to the religious sense? Is it possible to find a link
between the present and destiny? The answer is yes!” Then there is Carmen: “I’ve found a new
family;” and Alberto, a NATO officer: “What is happening in
Larissa with the School of Community is offering me a new way to deepen my
being Christian. The moments of encounter become meaningful moments, with a
wealth of new discoveries, moments in which personal certainties are
challenged, moments of interior growth…. I can affirm that my
religiosity comes out strengthened from these engagements, and my view of
the world, too, in the hope of being able to transmit to my family the
positive things I am living and learning.” Gianni said, “The
opportunity we have been given for me has meant, above all, a way to find
Jesus again, to continue that relationship with Him that I had thought
impossible, since there was nothing happening here in the parish. The
Saturday Mass was not enough for me.”
Today, after
this year spent together, we can say, like Cesana at the Spiritual Exercises, “You are free when you are at
home, and the finest thing is that we are at home in the whole
world.” It’s really true! After six years far away from Italy,
I am beginning to feel at home here, too.
What we want now is to adhere more and more to the
history that has saved us from loneliness, a history of salvation made up
of particular faces through which we have experienced the great and
faithful embrace of Jesus.